One afternoon I took a trip into my very distant past. I visited the tiny Haring family Farm Cemetery, which is the resting place of Cornelius Haring and his family. The cemetery is what is left of what was once a several hundred acre farm owned by the extensive Haring family of Bergen County, NJ.
The burial site had been hidden for years and the site neglected until restored by Eagle Scout, Anakin Rybacki in 2020
The history of the site extends back to the 17th century. “The immigrant ancestor was Jan Pieter Haring, who came from the Netherlands in the early 1660s. He was the leader of a group that purchased 16,000 acres in the Bergen/Rockland area, after living first in New Netherlands, now Manhattan,” said family descendant Regina Haring (Brown, NorthJersey.com).
Each of the historic tombstones are encased in a plastic box
The teen who renovated this cemetery encased each of the tombstones to preserve the place and history of each person buried on the site. Most of the tombstones were left in pieces by the time the renovation had started. This small cemetery is dedicated to the people who once lived here and passed away at the farm.
The grave site of Margaret Alyea
The grave of William Holdrum
The grave of Abraham Haring
Another simple tombstone of Elizabeth Haring
Some of the tombstones needed a serious cleaning
The grave of Elizabeth Blauvelt Haring
The cemetery from the entrance of the site
The sign on the site marking the fencing for the Haring Farm Cemetery
The cemetery is an interesting example of rural life in Bergen County when these early Dutch families would bury their loved ones on the family property rather than in the local churches.
My Class visit:
I stopped in at the Haring Farm Cemetery for a tour for their class project on Historical Cemeteries for the ‘Bergen 250’. This is for another Bergecco-Parc Consulting Inc. project.
So I got there early, raked the cemetery and tidied up the tombstones and cleaned and organized the signs. It looked so much better.
The Haring Farm Cemetery the morning of the tour. Much more respectable looking.
The Old North Church in Downtown Dumont, NJ is one of a series of Dutch Reformed Churches in Bergen County. This stately church still operates on a weekly basis and services are held on Sunday mornings. The cemetery to the back of the church is historic and interns some of the original families of Bergen County, NJ.
Old North is a Protestant Church affiliated with the Reformed Church in America. It is the oldest Protestant denomination with a continuous ministry in the United States and is a member of the Presbyterian/Reformed Family of Churches.
The actual Old North congregation dates back to 1724 and was organized in that year. A congregation of the settlers in what was known as Schraalenburgh (Dutch for “low ridge”) was formed at the time under the care of the “Church on the Green” in Hackensack. In 1725, Schraalenburgh Church built – stood about a city block east of the present South Church, Bergenfield. It was octagonal in shape. The Parsonage and minister for the church were located in Hackensack.
The historic sign of the church’s building
The Church Timeline:
(Taken from the Old North Church website)
1750 (Approximately) Congregation gradually divided into two – under the leadership of two pastors both meeting in the same building.
1799 One congregation left and built the present South Church. The second congregation continued to worship in the old church for about two years.
1801 The second congregation built “North Reformed Protestant Dutch Church of Schraalenburgh” on the land given by Major Isaac Kipp. The building was erected by Peter Durie of New York, who later moved to Tenafly to be near the project
The inscription over the front door, in Dutch, reads,
“Let peace come quickly to all. The North Church at Schraalenburgh built 1801.”
“In all places where I record my name, there shall I come to thee and bless thee.” Exodus 20:24
1833 Services in Dutch entirely discontinued.
1834 Parsonage (Pastor’s house) was built.
1836 Stoves were installed in four corners of Sanctuary.
1846 Sunday School is organized and met in the balcony.
1859 Sanctuary was enlarged eighteen feet. The side walls now had four windows instead of the original three. The back west wall was reconstructed with red brick and the red sand stones that were on the west wall and are now part of the sides blending with the original stones.
1868 The first furnace was installed in the Sanctuary. The clear glass panes in the Sanctuary were replaced with colored stenciled glass from Germany.
1888 Organ was installed in front of Sanctuary (attributed to W.H. Davis) powered by a water motor.
1894 Town name was changed from Schraalenburgh to Dumont in honor of Old North parishioner and 1st Mayor, Dumont Clarke.
1911 Town clock installed in the steeple.
1912 The first Church House built.
1918 World War I, Church House used almost exclusively by soldiers from Camp Merritt.
1919 Camp Merritt Town Memorial monument placed on church property. The flagpole (since replaced) made from artillery gun barrels was moved from Camp Merritt to church yard.
Dr. John Spring began his ministry and served for 34 years. He was formerly Chaplain at Camp Merritt and saw the congregation through the difficult years of the Great Depression.
During his ministry, Old North became mother church to a number of Reformed churches in surrounding towns. Mrs. Spring served as organist & choir director.
The entrance to the church from Washington Avenue
1923 Organ rebuilt by Clark & Fenton, Nyack, NY., electrified and moved to the north wall.
1925 Old North charters Boy Scout Troop 64.
1926 Steeple hit by lightning. The first church house burned.
1949 Old North charters Cub Scout Troop 131.
1954 Major repairs and Sanctuary redecorated.
1962 New Church House dedicated.
1969 Church steeple completely renovated and the clock was removed.
1972 New Tellers 26 rank pipe organ installed. The Choir organ division was given in honor of Mrs.
Spring. Sanctuary was redecorated.
1974 Old North celebrates its 250th Anniversary. New windows installed in Church House.
Dr. Albert Van Dyke retires after 16 years of service.
1980 Complete renovation of downstairs kitchen.
1983 Reverend Richard Vander Borgh becomes 13th Pastor.
1990 The End of the Earth Church Korean Congregation shared usage of church.
1996 150th Anniversary of Sunday School.
1999 275th Anniversary Celebrated.
2000 Air conditioning installed in Sanctuary.
2001 200th Anniversary of Church building. Church steeple painted.
2002 Cross replaces Reformed Church in America Coat of Arms in the sanctuary chancel.
2006 Light Alliance Korean Church of NJ shared usage of church.
2012 3-year major renovation of steeple and structures are complete.
2013 Installation of a state of the art Carillon–- sending forth music and hymns into the community.
2014 Reverend Richard Vander Borgh retires after 31 years.
2015 Reverend Susan E. Kerr installed as the 1st woman and14th minister of Old North Reformed
Church.
2017 Stair lift installed at Chapel entrance to make the Church House and the sanctuary accessible
for all. Handicapped bathroom and baby changing station are installed.
2018 Ye Old North Thrift Shoppe community ministry begun.
Community Thrift Shoppe begun in Church House ground floor.v. Richard and
Joan Vander Borgh.
Community Thrift Shoppe begun in Church House ground floor.
The Light of Christ Church shares usage of space.
2019 Electronic LED sign installed.
Memorial Plaque dedicated for new Auditorium chairs.
The electronic sign in the front of the church.
2021 Legacy Project Renovations.
The Old North Church Cemetery:
The church cemetery to the back of the church has some of the original families of Bergen County buried in their yard. The graves go all the way up to 1911 (Wiki).
The signage for the Old North Church Cemetery
The graveyard contains some of the old families in Bergen County
Some of the oldest graves in the cemetery
Old North Church
Historical sign
The historic cemetery
The historic graveyard
The Church cemetery/graveyard sign
The historic map of the cemetery
Family grave locations
The full graveyard from the back
The Demarest family plot
Van Voorhies family plot
The Blauvelt/Zabriskie family plot
The grave of Thomas Eckerson
The Banta/Demarest Graves of Wearth and Margaret Banta
The grave of John Lozier, the Revolutionary War veteran
The grave of Issac Kipp, a Revolutionary War Veteran
The grave of Jacob D. Demar, a Revolutionary War veteran
The graves of the Nicoll family, Isaac and Deborah Woodhull Nicoll
The grave of Isaac Nicoll, a Revolutionary War Veteran
Don’t miss this little hidden site in Old Tappan, NJ. The Baylor Massacre site holds a rich history in the county and in the country’s founding. It will make you realize what an important role that the State of New Jersey had in the Revolutionary War and the lives sacrificed to win the war. My hats off to these brave men and women who helped fight for our freedom.
The Baylor Massacre site in the Fall
This quiet little park sits off to the side by the river and you will need to take time to walk the paths and enjoy the reading the signing. The sacrifice that these men made during the war effort and the way they were treated by the British in the act of war was deplorable. That and the fact that their own countrymen from Bergen County turned them into the British was unbelievable.
The Baylor Massacre history:
After midnight on September 28, 1778 during America’s Revolutionary War, the brutal surprise attack by the British forces on the sleeping men of the 3rd Continental Light Dragoons began. Today this is known as the Baylor Massacre. Nowa County-owned historic park and burial ground, the Baylor Massacre Site is located along the Hackensack River in River Vale in Northern Bergen County, New Jersey.
In the Autumn of 1778, British General Cornwallis occupied southern Bergen County with a force of 5000 soldiers. Their purpose was to gather and forage for food to feed the army that would be garrisoned in New York City during the upcoming winter. Bergen County, with its fertile land and industrious Jersey Dutch farms, was a major source for food for both armies during the Revolution.
The Third Continental Light Dragoons, under the command by Lt. Colonel George Baylor, was one of four regiments of dragoons authorized by the Continental Congress. On the 27th of September, these 104 officers and men were dispatched to watch the bridge over the Hackensack River at the intersection of modern Rivervale and Old Tappan Roads to support General Wayne and his men in Tappan, New York.
The British forces were lead by General Charles “No Flint” Grey, who earned his nickname in the 1777 battle with General Wayne’s Pennsylvania troops when he ordered his men to remove the flints from their muskets to prevent an accidental gunshot and to use bayonets to insure the surprise of a nighttime attack. These tactics were used again in River Vale.
Grey’s men used their muskets to club and their bayonets to stab the sleeping dragoons. Eleven were killed immediately. Three more including 2nd in Command Major Alexander Clough (Washington’s Chief of Intelligence for the Hudson Valley), died of their wounds in Tappan the following day. Records indicate that as many as 22 men died some several weeks later. Two officers and 37 men, most of who were wounded, managed to escape into the night. One British soldier was killed when shot by a dragoon.
Grey’s men quickly gathered their prisoners and captured American equipment and continued up North. Fortunately General Wayne had been alerted of the movement of the British and had evacuated Tappan. The next day a detachment of the Bergen County Militia was dispatched to River Vale to locate any survivors. Finding six of the dead patriots at the bridge and fearing the possible return of British troops, they hurried to bury them in three abandoned leather tanning vats by the river.
The burial location was passed on by word of mouth for many generations. The only physical maker was the abandoned millstone from the tannery. Abram C. Holdrum removed the millstone from the site around 1900. For many years it was displayed in from of the local Holdrum School.
In 1967, a local resident became alarmed that a new housing development would destroy this historic burial site. Through careful research the approximate location of the burials was identified. County Freeholder D. Bennett Mazur was contacted and as a result, the County sponsored an archaeological dig that located six sets of remains. The County eventually acquired the site and dedicated it as a County Park. In 1974, the patriots’ remains were re-interred in the park and the original millstone was donated to serve as their gravestone.
In 2003, the County dedicated new interpretive panels and accessible pathways at the Baylor Massacre site. It is open year round during daylight hours.
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Disclaimer: This information was taken from the County Pamphlet: 2015 Bergen County Division of Cultural and Historic Affairs. The Bergen County Division of Cultural & Historic Affairs received an operating support grant from the New Jersey Historical Commission, a division of the Department of State. I give them full credit for this information.
The Baylor Massacre site in the fall of 2022
The Park in the fall months
Note from the Blogger: it is easy to miss the site so watch for the markers. For those interesting in the historical background of the Revolutionary War and New Jersey’s role in the war, take the time to visit this and other sites around Bergen County, New Jersey. They may be small but very significant.
Watch this interesting video that someone posted on YouTube.com
The grounds of the park
The grounds of the park in the fall
The site in the early Spring of 2025
The information signs of the site
The pathways by the river
The gravesite and memorial
The pathways around the park
The pathways around the park
The historic marker in the early Spring
In April of 2025, I took my students from Bergen Community College to the site for a project that we were working on for the ‘Bergen 250’. Most of the students did not know this place existed.
A talk with Colin Knight from the County Historical Division with my students
Me with my students at the Baylor Massacre site
A group picture near the county marker and garden with my students
I returned to the Baylor Massacre Site again in 2026 when my students were doing another project for the Bergen 250, mapping the historic cemeteries and graveyards of the Revolutionary War Veterans. Here is the group shot from that trip.
Professor Justin Watrel’s International Marketing class at the Baylor Massacre site in March 2026.
Some of the Executive Team at the Baylor Massacre site in March 2026
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