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Day Three Hundred and Eighty:                                                 Three Bergecco-Parc Consulting presents “Bergen 250: Exploring Bergen County’s Revolutionary War Era Cemeteries and Graveyards”                                                                                         April 29th, 2026

Day Three Hundred and Eighty: Three Bergecco-Parc Consulting presents “Bergen 250: Exploring Bergen County’s Revolutionary War Era Cemeteries and Graveyards” April 29th, 2026

Every semester for my Business Marketing, Management and Communications classes, I create one big Team assignment for my students. In a Commuter College, it is a lot tougher for students to get to know one another between their studies and their jobs, so I create these projects to foster learning, creativity and especially Teamwork.

This semester I taught International Marketing. This is a tough course to teach as you always have students of various age groups and various levels of industry experience. The Spring semester was no different. This makes the class more interesting yet more challenging to teach. I still challenge them and test them to see what type of future executives they will become.

I also taught Principles of Management and International Marketing which came with their own challenges. It was the amount of people in each class and what projects would they be working on. I knew the things I wanted to work on, I just had to figure out how to frame them.

In the past, I have created these projects under the Bergecco-Parc Consulting Inc. banner, the main consulting company, the Orion Malls banner, a Mall design company and the Buscomonzefi.com banner, my Tech Division.

Each business concept does its best to be creative, forward thinking and have a thought producing presentations. I also challenge the students to top on another in their presentations and build on what they have seen others do in the past.

The Bergecco-Parc Consulting Inc. concept is an acronym for Bergen Community College Paramus campus where I work. It came to me one night around 3:00am in the morning when I was trying to figure out a project for my students to work on.

Professor Justin Watrel, CEO Bergecco-Parc Consulting Inc.

Our Corporate site (created my one of my former President’s:

This semester I attempted one of the toughest and most extensive Team projects in all the historical projects I have created, taking the listing of the Daughters of the American Revolution created for Bergen County Historical Division for the “Bergen 250”and we took it to another level.

I challenged the students to visit all the cemeteries and graveyards on the listing (using my blog if needed), find the tombstones of the veterans of the Revolutionary War and photograph them. Next they needed to create a biography of each of the veterans.

From there, they needed to create a short video of that gravesite and put it all into a QR code so visitors can find them. It was a big challenge but I knew this class could do it. There was something about the personality of this class that would make it work.

I then planned a series of field trips so that the students could visit particular sites in a more formal tour. I asked a lot of the contacts who I have met over the years to help me out, so the students could see why this project was so important to the 250th Anniversary to both our County and our Country. It took a lot to plan and execute. I gave them six weeks to do the research and create other sections of the project.

Bergecco-Parc Consulting Inc. Project Proposal:

The project came in four different sections:

A. They had to take the listing of all the veterans and their list of grave sites and play ‘detective’ to find the tombstones and then film and create the QR codes.

B. They had to create a special “250th Medallion’ that would be placed at each veteran’s tombstone to honor them on the “Bergen 250”. These pieces of art were very clever.

C. They had to create a “Farm to Table” fundraiser with three courses and an American selection of wines, one being from New Jersey. They also had to create the menu and the invitation to the event. The Teams created the menu, cost and budget to show how much they would raise for the event.

D. As an extra credit assignment, I had the Teams create a special “Halloween Tour”, with a special concession menu, tour script of the cemetery or graveyard of their choice and create the logo and advertising for it. Three of the four Teams created this.

Then I planned a series of field trips to visit the most important sites in Bergen County, some were tiny stand alone family cemeteries, some were historical sites and some were very important church graveyards with family plots.

I think this is where the students had the most fun. This is where the comradery of the class was created. As I took the Team out to many of the sites on their listings, the Teams got to see the concept of “Dark Tourism”, the desire to visit places were either bad things have happened, the site has an evil past or something to do with death. This has become a popular form of Tourism in the Twenty-First Century. (Think the 9/11 Memorial).

It was also a chance to get out of the classroom and get some fresh air and sunshine. These are some of the places our Team visited.

My Graveyard and Cemetery Team “Out in the Field”:

The first site I took my Team to was the Baylor Massacre site in River Vale, NJ, where the British had ambushed a battalion of soldiers and killed them. The site has a rather dark history from the war.

Touring the Baylor Massacre site

https://www.discoverbergencounty.com/baylor-massacre-burial-site

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baylor_Massacre

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g46777-d12277914-r1054278914-Baylor_Massacre_Burial_Site-River_Vale_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com

My Team tour of the Baylor Massacre site

The Team tour of the site

Tour of the Baylor Massacre site

Touring the Baylor Massacre site

The irony about the site is that all my students were from Bergen County and none of them had been here before. I had taken my previous ‘Bergen 250’ class here as well as our next stop, the Haring Farm Cemetery just a few blocks away.

The Team picture at the Baylor Massacre site

We next toured the Haring Family Cemetery down the road on Old Haring Farm Road. This was one of the many examples of small family cemeteries that used to be placed at the edge of family farms, who wanted loved ones buried close by or the distance to the family church was too far away at that time.

Touring the Haring Family Cemetery

The Haring family is one of the most important and prominent Colonial families in New Jersey (and are very distantly related to me by marriage), so I felt this site was very important to visit to show the family dynamic of that era.

Our Team at the Haring Farm Cemetery at Old Haring Farm Court

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/1974293/haring-family-cemetery

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g46777-d33055554-r1054278214-Haring_Farm_Cemetery-River_Vale_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com:

We then went on our Team lunch at Pompilio’s Pizzeria in Downtown Westwood, NJ. I feel on projects like this to build comradary and for the students to start their projects, we need to ‘break bread’ with one another and get to know each other in a relaxed place. Plus the students seem to love free pizza and Coke. This lunch has started many successful projects.

Our Team Divisional at lunch at Pompilio’s Pizzeria:

Our Team lunch at Pompilio’s Pizzeria

We all had such a nice time at lunch and feel this is the best way to get to know one another. The food at Pompilio’s is also excellent. I always host the lunch with large Cheese Pizza and Coke.

My Executive Team at our lunch

Our next Field Trip was the Old Stone Church in Saddle River at 481 East Saddle River Road in Saddle River, NJ. This is one of the oldest churches in Bergen County and in New Jersey.

The Old Stone Church at 481 East Saddle River Road in Saddle River

https://oldstonechurchonline.org

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_North_Reformed_Low_Dutch_Church

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g46882-d33349708-r1053127966-Saddle_River_Reformed_Church_and_Cemetery-Upper_Saddle_River_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com:

Touring the oldest part of the graveyard

This church has the most complete set of tombstones of Revolutionary War veterans and the church website has some of the most complete information on their veterans.

Our group picture at the Old Stone Church

Our next trip was to the First Reformed Church of Hackensack, the second oldest church in New Jersey and one of the most important for the Revolutionary War. Their graveyard has the most amount of Revolutionary War veterans in Bergen County.

My students outside the First Reformed Church of Hackensack at 42 Court Street

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Dutch_Reformed_Church,_Hackensack

https://dspace.njstatelib.org/items/4de999c0-1b3c-442a-867c-c3d5e3ee75e7

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g46480-d34352436-r1058240159-First_Reformed_Church_of_Hackensack-Hackensack_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com:

The historic outside cornerstones of the church with the original family founder names carved in the bricks

The family keystones

John Paulson keystone

Henry Berry keystone

Albert C. Zabrifky keystone

The Historic First Reformed Church pews and stained glass windows.

The first floor of the church and the inside pews

The alter

The view of inside of the church

The Revolutionary War artifacts

My student visit on the second floor of the church. The church’s artifacts are displayed in the cases here.

Tour of the church

The Child’s family windows

Voorhis-Lozier-Moore Windows

The Kraissi family windows

The Van Valen windows

The War years windows

The church is the second oldest church in New Jersey and one of the oldest in the country. We then walked outside to tour the historic graveyard in the back of the church. It had the most amount of Revolutionary War veterans buried in Bergen County, NJ.

Many of the veterans of the American Revolution were buried closest to the church, which was the tradition of the time to be buried as close to the church as possible. Their graves were marked by Revolutionary War medallions and American flags.

The Demarest-Voorhis Revolutionary War graves

General Poor’s grave

Albert Romin grave Revolutionary War veteran

The front part of the church by the Hackensack Green was the resting place of many of these heros

Our Team of Student Consultants picture inside the historic graveyard

It is also the resting place of General Enoch Poor, who died during battle, whose funeral was attended by General George Washington himself. We took this group picture by the General’s grave.

Our Team pictures with General Poor

Our last field trip and one of our most important was to the Old South Presbyterian Church in Bergenfield. This was the place of the Demarest family plot, which is currently under a full renovation.

The Old South Presbyterian Church and Graveyard

https://www.southchurchtoday.org

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Profile/R4960NKjustinw/mediabatch/13264450?m=19905

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com:

We worked with Melissa Naylis, who is leading the renovation of the church and master carver, Bob Carpenter, who showed us how he is restoring the graveyard. He had led one of my previous classes when we visited the graveyard for my ‘Bergen 250’ project.

Master Carver Bob Carpenter leading our tour

The South Presbyterian Church and the Demarest family plot

The Demarest family plot

Melissa Naylis starting the tour with us

The students got to learn of the important history of the grave sites and why they are an important piece of the United States founding. The were the men who fought for our freedom and the wives and families that supported the effort.

Melissa leading the tour and introducing Bob Carpenter to us

Melissa Naylis explaining the work that is being done in the graveyard

Bob Carpenter explains his work

Some of the earliest tombstones in the graveyard

Bob Carpenter explaining the renovation

Bob Carpenter talking about the Demarest plot renovation

Pastor Glen from the Old South Presbyterian Church introducing himself to the students and joining us on this part of the tour.

Talking about the care of the tombstones

Talking about care of the tombstones

We then moved to tombstone of the founder of Rutgers University for a marble carving demonstration. Bob Carpenter wanted the students to know the effort into carving into stone and brought the tools of that era and a piece of marble for the students to use. The students got a kick out of this and some really enjoyed it.

Bob explaining the work of a marble carver

Describing the process

My students giving it a try

My student Amy, carving marble

My student, Walid, carving on marble

Demonstrating the process

After the demonstration, we talked about the work of the Demarest family and their contributions within Bergen County.

The founder of Rutgers University, John Henry Goetscheus and a member of the extended Demarest family.

Our Team picture after the tour

Taking a quick tour of the graveyard after the formal tour, the Blauvelt-Kipp family burial ground

I found that being ‘out of the field’ really exposed the students to not just to visiting parts of the county they had never seen but showing them how cemeteries and graveyards are part of our culture of respect and memory. They can be looked at less as religious standpoint but as a historical value of who we are and how it part of all of our pasts.

We also looked about how these sites could play a role of building Bergen County tourism by promoting these sites as a part of the history of our country. Not just during the Revolutionary War but as part of our cultural fabric.

On April 29th, 2026, the students made their formal Presentation of the project and showed off their research of the sites and their fundraising tools to support the restoration of these sites.

Here is their work:

The Bergen 250 PowerPoint:

https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1WdalxqzFy9NJE-6D2Y9nRrHBTB9Z14N2WgSzn119EqM/edit?slide=id.p1#slide=id.p1

The Bergen 250 Website:

https://sites.google.com/me.bergen.edu/bergecco-park-consulting-inc/our-journey

The Bergen 250 Presentation Video:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ow37gAAbXF22uoae_bwix6mAseVn_TXy/view

The Bergen 250 YouTube Video:

This was an amazing project that will benefit so many people from historians to researchers to people who love the Revolutionary War and its history to family members looking for loved ones.

It is my class’s contribution as well as other future and past projects to benefit the “Bergen 250” and the rich history of Bergen County, NJ. Our County has contributed so much to not just the building of the state but of the United States as well. It was one of the best projects I ran as CEO of Bergecco-Parc Consulting Inc.

Our Executive Picture:

The “Cemetery and Graveyards” Team

Our Reception following the Presentation

Our Presentation was followed by a Q & A with many people we had met along the way from our visits “out in the field” who had come to see the final project and this was followed by our Corporate Team picture and then a reception in honor of the Student Consultants who made this important possible and come to life.

Great job Team!

Baylor Massacre Burial Site                                           Rivervale Road & Red Oak Drive                                      River Vale, NJ 07675

Baylor Massacre Burial Site Rivervale Road & Red Oak Drive River Vale, NJ 07675

The Baylor Massacre Burial Site

486 Rivervale Drive

Rivervale Road and Red Oak Drive

River Vale, NJ  07675

http://www.bergencountyhistory.org/Pages/baylormassacre.html

Open: Dawn to Dusk

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g46777-d12277914-Reviews-Baylor_Massacre_Burial_Site-River_Vale_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

Don’t miss this little hidden site in Old Tappan, NJ. The Baylor Massacre site holds a rich history in the county and in the country’s founding. It will make you realize what an important role that the State of New Jersey had in the Revolutionary War and the lives sacrificed to win the war.  My hats off to these brave men and women who helped fight for our freedom.

The Baylor Massacre site in the Fall

This quiet little park sits off to the side by the river and you will need to take time to walk the paths and enjoy the reading the signing. The sacrifice that these men made during the war effort and the way they were treated by the British in the act of war was deplorable. That and the fact that their own countrymen from Bergen County turned them into the British was unbelievable.

The Baylor Massacre history:

After midnight on September 28, 1778 during America’s Revolutionary War, the brutal surprise attack by the British forces on the sleeping men of the 3rd Continental Light Dragoons began. Today this is known as the Baylor Massacre. Nowa County-owned historic park and burial ground, the Baylor Massacre Site is located along the Hackensack River in River Vale in Northern Bergen County, New Jersey.

In the Autumn of 1778, British General Cornwallis occupied southern Bergen County with a force of 5000 soldiers. Their purpose was to gather and forage for food to feed the army that would be garrisoned in New York City during the upcoming winter.  Bergen County, with its fertile land and industrious Jersey Dutch farms, was a major source for food for both armies during the Revolution.

The Third Continental Light Dragoons, under the command by Lt. Colonel George Baylor, was one of four regiments of dragoons authorized by the Continental Congress. On the 27th of September, these 104 officers and men were dispatched to watch the bridge over the Hackensack River at the intersection of modern Rivervale and Old Tappan Roads to support General Wayne and his men in Tappan, New York.

The British forces were lead by General Charles “No Flint” Grey, who earned his nickname in the 1777 battle with General Wayne’s Pennsylvania troops when he ordered his men to remove the flints from their muskets to prevent an accidental gunshot and to use bayonets to insure the surprise of a nighttime attack. These tactics were used again in River Vale.

Grey’s men used their muskets to club and their bayonets to stab the sleeping dragoons. Eleven were killed immediately. Three more including 2nd in Command Major Alexander Clough (Washington’s Chief of Intelligence for the Hudson Valley), died of their wounds in Tappan the following day.  Records indicate that as many as 22 men died some several weeks later. Two officers and 37 men, most of who were wounded, managed to escape into the night. One British soldier was killed when shot by a dragoon.

Grey’s men quickly gathered their prisoners and captured American equipment and continued up North. Fortunately General Wayne had been alerted of the movement of the British and had evacuated Tappan. The next day a detachment of the Bergen County Militia was dispatched to River Vale to locate any survivors. Finding six of the dead patriots at the bridge and fearing the possible return of British troops, they hurried to bury them in three abandoned leather tanning vats by the river.

The burial location was passed on by word of mouth for many generations. The only physical maker was the abandoned millstone from the tannery. Abram C. Holdrum removed the millstone from the site around 1900. For many years it was displayed in from of the local Holdrum School.

In 1967, a local resident became alarmed that a new housing development would destroy this historic burial site. Through careful research the approximate location of the burials was identified. County Freeholder D. Bennett Mazur was contacted and as a result, the County sponsored an archaeological dig that located six sets of remains. The County eventually acquired the site and dedicated it as a County Park. In 1974, the patriots’ remains were re-interred in the park and the original millstone was donated to serve as their gravestone.

In 2003, the County dedicated new interpretive panels and accessible pathways at the Baylor Massacre site. It is open year round during daylight hours.

WWW.BERGEN.NJ.US

Disclaimer: This information was taken from the County Pamphlet: 2015 Bergen County Division of Cultural and Historic Affairs. The Bergen County Division of Cultural & Historic Affairs received an operating support grant from the New Jersey Historical Commission, a division of the Department of State. I give them full credit for this information.

The Baylor Massacre site in the fall of 2022

The Park in the fall months

Note from the Blogger: it is easy to miss the site so watch for the markers. For those interesting in the historical background of the Revolutionary War and New Jersey’s role in the war, take the time to visit this and other sites around Bergen County, New Jersey. They may be small but very significant.

Watch this interesting video that someone posted on YouTube.com

The grounds of the park

The grounds of the park in the fall

The site in the early Spring of 2025

The information signs of the site

The pathways by the river

The gravesite and memorial

The pathways around the park

The pathways around the park

The historic marker in the early Spring

In April of 2025, I took my students from Bergen Community College to the site for a project that we were working on for the ‘Bergen 250’. Most of the students did not know this place existed.

A talk with Colin Knight from the County Historical Division with my students

Me with my students at the Baylor Massacre site

A group picture near the county marker and garden with my students

The Bergecco-Parc Consulting Inc. Team Project Spring 2026: “The Graveyards and Cemeteries of the Revolutionary War Veterans”

The first two sites that I visited with this Team in the Spring of 2026 was the Baylor Massacre site and then the Haring Farm Cemetery down the road. The irony about the site is that all my students were from Bergen County and none of them had been here before. I had taken my previous ‘Bergen 250’ class here as well as our next stop, the Haring Farm Cemetery just a few blocks away.

My Team tour of the Baylor Massacre site

The Team tour of the site

Tour of the Baylor Massacre site

Touring the Baylor Massacre site

The Team picture at the Baylor Massacre site

I returned to the Baylor Massacre Site again in 2026 when my students were doing another project for the Bergen 250, mapping the historic cemeteries and graveyards of the Revolutionary War Veterans. Here is the group shot from that trip.